Yesterday went for visit my grandpa,
he had been sent to the old folks home to get better nurse to take care of him.
I first time went for old folks home, I'm not kidding.
Old folks home is scary for me, looks like very heavy feeling inside the house.
Quite, desperate, unhappy, curious are appear on their face.
Those old patient sleeping, and no ones visit them.
Well, maybe just I haven't saw yet.
The house is actually guarded by 3 malay girls, I don't know are they from local?
We immediately search for grandpa and try to talk to him.
Grandpa speaks unclear, we try to understand, but failed.
I look around the house,
there's only a TV to entertain them, no more.
Look, how boring if I'm here.
I'm not blaming, I just felt sympathy.
I suggest my father to bring some music or some Buddha songs for grandpa.
But I think I just get a very fast agree from my father, but he's not going to bring @_@
Looks at my grandpa, he's tired, his eye keep on staring the wall, he actually can see things.
He's regret about his life when he's still healthy I guess.
He drank lots of heavy drinks, beer and all that, and just play around,
this is what my grandma complain about him and don't allow him to back home.
That's cruel, the first thing I come to my mind for my grandma.
'' He just playing around and don't save his pension, look now, he deserve this. ''
I stunned.
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One women who suffer from stroke,
heard she told my mother that her 4 brother din't ever come visit her at all,
but is good to heard her 4 sister did.
Fortunately my uncle they still come visit him, thanks God.
If not will be very pity.
I guess I gonna start think of future, look higher and longer,
beware and think twice before making decision,
that will not affect me when I'm old.
We don't know will your friend or family come to visit you when you're lying on the bed,
is better to take care by yourself.
Don't do things that just fun yourself in the moment,
looks higher and longer, looks future...
Please, I'm so sad to look them who don't care their life.
:(
It's exaggerate to say that communication is a panacea.
Talk a lot doesn't mean you're good enough in communicating,
sometimes it need to be silence.
If I'm silence, don't ask me why.